Searching Friends Online

I am surprise to see many people just simply mad about Facebook. Frankly, I'm not familiar with most of the features inside and I need both of my nieces to teach me this and that... Some of my colleagues are so addicted to the games, they claimed that they reach to the stage of insomnia if do not play it at night! It sounds terrible. I'm not sure what's so great about the games or I'm very dummy on most of the pc games, always lose because I just can't handle it well, it's just too technical, too difficult for me! Anyway, I find I'm more interested to the peoplesearch and I have successfully got the old classmates & schoolmates, we keep in touch now. This is what I like some of the social network webs which provide this special feature. Although we have lost contact to our old friends, there's still chances to look for them.

But I feel that it's some sort of flaw in it as we must have at least a minimum kind of contact for example the email address of the person that I want to look for. So this is not easy especially when it's a long lost friend. If searching by names is not practical too if a friend's name is one of very common so you will have a few thousands of them bearing the same name! Besides, they might not using their real name in the web too. So I hope the web guys understand this and develop something more exciting to us who like to finding someone online from time to time. Actually I have a mini-project together with my best pal in primary school, which is get together the super-10 (nickname of our group of girls) The ten girls then, now mostly mothers of a number of children. I'm all excited to wait for the day to meet the other 9 members again!

Maxis, Why Like That One?...

There's always problems and trouble around us but the point is how we gonna solve it and most importantly is that the thing get done at the end plus try to avoid the same old doggy silly trouble to the people, agree? I'm addressing this because my husband's recent cell phone's bill is really sucks & it's due to two group of people. 1) the sms syndicate (I don't know what they called) who simply send the vulgar & offensive stuffs & 2) the stupid mobile service provider ~ Maxis, all those sms (over 100) are billed & it's RM1/each. This is funny, isn't it?

Went to complain the issue@Maxis Centre, Gardens ~ I tell you, twice ok? They also cannot give a proper solution. 1st time, a lady~ said she has stopped them from sending but still received after that. 2nd time, a guy~ must pay the bill in full, asked my hubby to dial 103 to get the info of that particular co., go there & get refund on his own. This is STUPID!!! How on earth does this person come out with this thought?... No hope to Maxis Centre@Gardens. Went to Maxis Centre@KLCC. Ok that guy seems so understandable & solved it the way every customer wants, pay the bill minus the spam sms. He said the investigation will be done & expect a call from them over a few days to verify the issue. Alright, things seems settled & done. Suddenly, received an sms saying that still owe them RM1xx.00. Report again at Maxis Centre@Tmn Tun. A guys called the next day to tell that it's my hubby's fault & he must get it paid! What the heck! Why's it's our fault? We didn't subscribe those silly spam sms... Hey, Maxis, you are soooo stupid! Very simply, if you still insist us to pay, we'll just switch to other service provider. I never imagine Maxis people are so STUPID!

p/s: most customer service staffs are serving people without a smile & no greeting. I must admit that the people working at Immigration Office are far better than them.

Still Fresh In My Mind

It's still very fresh in my memory that incident happened although I was just about 4 years old then. My mother used to bring me to the nearby groceries in the evening before dinner. Because this owner of the groceries is an old friend of my mom so they would have some women talks a bit before we back home. That was one evening, I was having a pack of snacks near the door so I was watching the cars passing-by out there. Suddenly, a car was moving extremely fast but it was blocked by a bike so the car had to stopped immediately. The driver was so mad and he pull out a baseball bat, he punched it at the biker's head straightaway. Well, most people believe the driver must be intoxicated. The biker was seriously injured and one Good Samaritan helped out. I'm not sure about whether or not the biker brought the case to the legal office, But if he is living in Texas or places around, he should have looked for car accident attorney Austin and explained the whole story in details. Their past victories in personal injuries and auto accidents cases would be convincing. For further information, one has to contact the people at O’Hanlon, McCollom & Demerath – Personal Injury Lawyers – 808 West Avenue, Austin, TX. 78701 – 512-494-9949.

My Big Little Man

I took some time get XJ to hold his milk bottle on his own. It's not that I didn't teach him earlier. Actually he managed to do that as early as 4 months plus. I guess he is belong to "my husband category" that means "LAZY" precisely! So I'm a bit worry he grows up to be a Lazy Monster... waiting his mama to sort out things for him?! No, I love my kid to be independent but the more I push towards something, it's like more difficult to achieve. As parents, we must understand when to give a duly positive pressure and when to "release" so that the kids will just accept/adapt to it accordingly with open heart. That's what I think.

So now, XJ loves to hold his milk bottle without mama carrying him on my lap because he wants to have milk while watching his favorite Mickey Mouse Club House & Friends!

He is enjoying the cartoon, please do not disturb!

Drive Without A License

This driver has no valid driving license!

Do you have a "driving-baby" at home? My boy loves to imitate what we normally do, the most common few are cough with hand covered the mouth, wave hands, snap fingers, etc. Anyway, this is very normal among kids so we parents must be always watched out ourselves for not doing something unpleasant fearing the little ones will follow! At night, my hubby loves to play the racing games. My boy getting more interested recently or I'll say that both my boys are hooked on it! XJ likes playing with papa's steering by turning left & right. Sometimes quite rough 'til papa feels a little heartache because the entire steering set + paddle costs a few hundreds. He always wanted to climb up the chair and turn. Papa really surrendered & have to get XJ a steering toy set. For your information, XJ still prefer papa's one!

This steering is belongs to XJ. It's quite interesting too with different sounds and flashing but it never got him to sit & play for more than 10 minutes!

You Seen It Real?...

Do you see real gold bullion in front of you before? I seen it a number of times but all are through movies of course! You know those movies involved some very rich families usually like to show their precious belongings in some shots but anyway that's just movies. How people can get wealthy so easily is always the question in my mind. Do you actually think about it? As people said rich people will get richer while the poor one will get poorer. This is a fact which we can't disagree. Anyway, if you want to climb out from the poverty statistic, you just gotta work extra smart but not hard. If you have a little to invest for the precious metals one day, please get expert advice from United States Gold Bureau because they are the pioneer in this market.

What Scared Me?

That's when XJ was 7 months old during CNY, the "cool fever" didn't cool him down

I'm not scared of dark or pain and I'm not worry for being alone nor terrific heavy workloads... What's mattered me the most is when time the little guy has fever. That's the most difficult thing to handle! I'm lucky that he is a healthy little guy and quite tough too. So far he had fever once touched about 38.6-38.8 degree at the highest.(touch woodx10) That was during the 6th day of CNY. (actually started a day before but the fever was within 37 degree, went to Assunta Hospital but the medicine were not effective) The Pead clinic where XJ has his routine vaccinations was still closed for holiday and same to other Pead clinics. Without further delay, we brought him to see doc at Pantai Medical Center, Bangsar at the emergency ('coz it's late night). Good was he needn't admit to hospital. He was still very bouncy like usual and smiled to the doc. But the drama started when we got back home. He was extremely cranky, threw tantrum 100x more than usual :-( Cried 'til he threw out the milk he drank earlier and cried some more... that means the medicine which mixed with milk also came out from the stomach, really headache and needed to clean up the mess too... You know the CNY mood was suddenly all spoilt and I just wanted my little baby to get well soon.

He Grows Up Fast...

Now I'm totally agreed with the people who told me once that "you just gotta enjoy when your son is still a baby..." for numerous reasons. We had his one year old birthday celebration early last month but he seems grown up a lot more faster after that both mentally and physically! We couldn't "control" him much now because he tends to be very firm on his "decision". For example, he wanted to hold the Lipton Lemon Green Tea plastic bottle when I took it out from the fridge, just prepared to pour into my mouth, he saw it & shouted non-stop... He wanted to touch & hold the bottle (he loves to touch cold things) which means he will grab that for quite some while & won't let me drink. I never let this little guy do whatever he likes or he may think whatever he does are just alright next time. But when I don't give him, he will shout 'til I lost my patient and surrender finally... Kids have their own mind so early, is that good (their brain is on duty any second) or bad (to the parents who could hardly tame them)???

I missed his "salivating" kisses. This one taken during Mother's Day in May earlier. He's been very good boy to kiss me whenever I asked for, he will never turn down my request. It's a different story now!

Learned From The Past

I remembered my mom said that some the famous actors and actresses of the past are very "fragile" in life. Although they made good fame and earned a lot, they ended up in dire street because unable to pay for the huge debts in gambling or some even worse as the committed suicide as a result of the failure in relationship! That's actually very silly! I thought people in the past have quality in everything but I never understand why they would have led their life in such pitiful! Perhaps people today learned from the past mistakes so they tend to invest on something which is of high value for example bullion. This is for assurance especially during the later part of our life I mean when we are retired finally. The little investment during the young days are of importance then. I do not have much advice but you should seek the assistance of the specialist like United States Gold Bureau if you wish to buy gold, silver or other precious metals.

Little Appreciation

I guess we all like to be appreciated for our efforts put forth no matter it's a huge one like overcoming the hardships faced by a company or a trivial one like sorting out the house chores everyday. Or sometimes we do a particular things which is not within our responsibility but we just think it's better to ease the burden of the other... Ok, a genuine one will not ask for a thing in return but we do love to know or listen (at least) some nice words directly from the mouth of the person involved to show that he or she appreciated what other has done for. Or it's actually a form of respect. Unfortunately, most people in this century are very hesitate to do so. I'm not sure why or is it because too much of blogging, FB-ing, tweet-ing ... etc and people less talking 'til don't know what to say?... Be caution ok? If you're one of them, please spare a while to think all over again!

This small cake is specially given to the moms (on Mother's Day in May earlier) from the lady boss of the restaurant we frequent for weekend dinner to show their appreciation on us always make a comeback. We were surprised & delighted + we continue to go back to the same place! Can you see the magic in it?

That's precious!

Oh this one is precious because this was the first and the only pic I managed to snap when I finally saw the pearly white erupted from the stubborn gum of my little monster about 1 month plus ago! He never like to let me touch his lips but I always love to disturb him. So one day, I saw something I longed for were finally there and I used my one hand to carry the camera while the other hand to do that as shown in the pic. You can see the little guy's facial expression, he was so reluctant... and he wanted to bite me too!

I think it's very important to witness a kid's growth and developments or you may be regretted if you've missed it and you find he or she is grown up in a blink of eye. My ex-coll rang me the other day to chat about family affair and kids stuff. She said that she felt guilty for not taking care of her own kid (with her personal reasons) eventhough she works at home. Well, my opinion offered to her is the quantity of time is not as vital as the quality time spent with the little one. And we must accomplish our responsibility at the best of us at time and stay focus because the opportunity may just passed through, that's a waste.

It was like just last night I cuddle him, a small baby but he is a little destroyer today!